The tantra and the Kama Sutra both teach techniques and positions to enhance and extend your pleasure during sex. Because stimulation of the scrobum and the perenium (the area between the base of the scrotum and the anus) are both necessary during tantric sex, you’ll need to make sure you position yourself so you have at least one free hand with which you can provide stimulation. It’s best to have him on his back with his legs hanging over the edge of the bed. Kneel or sit between his legs (have him spread them a little if necessary).
To give a tantric blowjob, you take your man through several waves of near orgasm using different styles of stroking, sucking and stimulation, then finish with an extended actual orgasm. After cycling close of orgasm a few times, most men experience very strong and sometimes very lengthy orgasms.
You can do this all on your own, but it’s easier if the two of you have some basic communication. Have some sort of signal when he is about to orgasm, so you know when to back off or when to finish strong. Also, the tantic arts work best when the two of you are working together to achieve the same goal, namely a very pleasurable blowjob.
Once you’re in position, begin by softly caressing his inner thighs and his lower stomach. Avoid touching his penis at first. Lighty stroke from his knees, up the inside of the thigh, all the way to the base of the scrotum. Tease the perenium for a second, then repeat the stroke on the other leg. Don’t be surprised if his penis comes to life without you even touching it. After a few strokes on each leg, finish your strokes by caressing from the base of the scrotum, lightly up the scrotum and along the shaft to the tip. Continue until he is fully erect.
Next, begin licking the tip of his penis, keeping one hand around the base of the penis. Swirl your tongue around the tip of the penis, then begin softly sucking the tip. Continue sucking until you feel him coming closer to orgasm, then slow down or stop all activity for a minute.
The tantra teaches us that it is possible for a man to experience the feeling of orgasm without actually ejaculating. The trick is to stop the flow of semen before it reaches the penis. Men have long used cock rings (adjustable rings that tighten around the base of the penis and/or scrotum) for this purpose. Some men have learned to develop their PC Muscle and can acually stop the flow just by flexing it. With a little practice, you can locate a “secret spot” that will allow you to stop it for him.
The tube that carries semen from the body to the penis runs just under the skin, along the perenium, from about halfway in between the scrobum and the anus to the base of the scrotum. If you follow it from the base of the scrotum and find the point where it angles upward into the body, you have located a man’s secret spot. By pressing firmly on this spot just before orgasm, you can “kink” the hose, so to speak. The man will experience the feeling of orgasm without actually ejaculating. And there’s no worring about whether to spit or swallow!
A man can experience several of these virtual orgasms in a row. If you finish with an actual orgasm, the finaly orgasm can be extremely intense. Many men report having full body orgasms lasting over a minute. No wonder the Kama Sutra has been around for thousands of years.